I get lots & lots & LOTS of beach club invites. How are these non-beach-buddies getting my name? I'm not their facebook friend nor have any connection that I know of for them to think I'd make a good addition to their clubs... and, I feel bad rejecting them all without being able to explain I'm in the perfect club. It's very, very, quiet and small. No chatting normally, not even to say "thanks" for the guests, just occasionally for that.
So, to all of you out there, thanks, but how did you get my name???
If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to be a horrible warning